A few years ago, in fact ten years ago when having an appointment with his urologist , my husband was not at all happy with his manner he was arrogant and dismissive of any questions my husband asked him. After the consultation my husband did a bit of asking around and he requested a different consultant for his next consultation. The contrast was immense and very much successful so if you don’t have faith in your assigned consultant then I suggest that you request a different one you are entitled to switch via the N H S. It’s so important that you have every confidence in your consult, it’s a team effort.
Good luck