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Posted 06 Mar 2018 at 18:31
Every day I feel at some point divorce is the only answer but I feel guilty because he is about to go through chemotherapy
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Posted 06 Mar 2018 at 19:17

Hi Rose sam,
it will be better to keep your existing thread going so that members can see your predicament and the replies you have already had.

Your existing thread is here https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/default.aspx?g=posts&m=179527#post179527

I can't help you to decide whether or not it is okay to leave but if you are deeply unhappy or at risk, then you should not allow his illness to be the only reason you stay.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 08 Mar 2018 at 21:12
Thanks
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Posted 08 Mar 2018 at 23:28

Hi Rose, my wife left me 6 months into my PC journey. If your husband still loves you leaving him will be the worst torture you could ever inflict on him - worse than the cancer..

But as Lyn says if he truly deserves it then it's not your problem but waiting 44 years until now seems like poor timing..

 
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