Some hospitals routinely bone scan all men diagnosed while others only scan if they suspect spread. We had the same experience as you - we already knew that cancer must have been found as the scan appointment came through before we had actually seen the urologist to get the results. The hospital apologised profusely and we ultimately felt it was better that way than to have to wait ages afterwards for the full diagnosis but that didn't make it any less scary in the intervening time.
So yes, it is reasonable to prepare yourselves for the news that PCa has been found but not to catastrophise that the bone scan has any particular significance. If he turns out not to have cancer you will be mightily relieved and will at least have a base line for future monitoring.
Edited by member 27 Apr 2018 at 16:27
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