Hi Allison,
Thank you very much for your kind words and support. You have been on this journey with your OH for much longer than I have, but I can understand that you might want to lock it away out of sight for a while. But unfortunately, the cancer doesn't slow down because we don't talk about it.
The longer my case goes on, the less I seem to understand it. I do get very confused these days, so I can't really comment on exactly how chemo works. I do know that my PSA didn't drop significantly during my chemo, but it has certainly risen since I finished the chemo. (A blood test yesterday shows yet another rise, to 119).
I have no regrets at taking the chemo. It was hard going, but I did cope quite well with it overall and I did feel very much better for a couple of months after finishing the course, so on balance, it was worth having.
I am going for one session of RT tomorrow morning. I am not entirely sure what to expect, but I am guessing that I should be able to cope with a single burst of radiation.
My research nurse has spoken to me on the phone today and she is lining up a whole series of tests for me, including CT and bone scans and a MUGA scan to test my heart function. These tests are to determine that I can be accepted on the Re-AKT trial. So nothing is certain yet, particularly since I do have a serious heart complaint as well.
You may have read in my profile that I did have Abiraterone and I would recommend it if John can get it. I had no additional side effects from it at all and my PSA tumbled down whilst I was on it. But it only worked for 10 months before the PSA started rising again. The big attraction of the Re-AKT trial is that everyone on the trial gets Enzalutamide, a drug that NICE will not permit for anyone who has had Abi. I am hoping it will be as effective as Abi was, but we'll see.
I take great inspiration from yours and John's story. I wish you the greatest luck and I will try to keep you informed of the way the trial is going.
Peter