Hello everyone,
I just wanted to share my experience of this knowing how useful it has been to read so many stories here over the past few months.
My wife sent me for a PSA test in January (no symptoms) -an elective follow up from one ,three years ago after which my GP said there was nothing to worry about. He was wrong as it was 2.4 then aged 50 but he chose not to disclose this to me and I didn’t understand the relevance then
Got the results 3.7 the new GP did his DRE said all normal- again incorrect
I asked to be referred and the specialist said in his opinion something was there and sent me for an multiparametric MRI which was reported as grade 3( suspicious ) Next step was grid biopsy the result of which was Gleason 7 (3+4) 95% 3 ,5% 4.
This was followed by a bone scan which was scary and apparently of questionable necessity. Anyway ,they gave me the all clear there and then.
We were given three choices:
Active Surveillance
Radiotherapy
Radical prostatectomy
At this point we discussd the pros and cons and decided that we wanted to obviate the risk of spreading cancer. We got rather concerned when the surgeon asked how important your sex life is! He said a large number of his patients aren’t interested in it anymore!
Alarm bells rang and we went on a mission to find another surgeon. After lots of research we came across [removed by Moderator] operating out of the Royal Marsden.
He initially said that he thought that surgery was not necessary. After his team reviewed the results of the tests it became apparent that the operation was on the cards. We know that [removed by Moderator] is probably the best in the UK at achieving clean margins. Also doing the surgery robotically, he was very concerned and keen to preserve all possible nerve function respecting that sex is a crucial part of life when you are only 54.
Communication and confidence from [removed by Moderator] was first class. He called us repeatedly, replied to emails regularly and is generally the type of kind, passionate surgeon that you hope to meet but seem rarely to manage to do. Also he’s young and smart- going down to surgery on the day of the operation the anaesthetist remarked how well we had done to find [removed by Moderator] as he's the top choice for other surgeons with prostate cancer
Today , two weeks after the operation I can confirm he delivered and then some! I’m experiencing no incontinence and even managed to have (careful) sex with the help of a pill - everything is good.
The only negative thing is that I feel so good that I probably overdid it yesterday and realise that I do need to take it easy..
Top tips:
Don’t trust your GP
Go to [removed by Moderator]
There’s life after prostate cancer
Edited by moderator 27 May 2018 at 18:40
| Reason: Removing Doctors name throughout.