We're in Peterborough, Bri.
You're right, a rise from 0.04 to 0.05 in 3 months doesn't appear to be a huge rise on the face of it but they expressed concern about the speed it's rising. All I can say is what he has been advised, he was <0.02 and then it went to 0.04 3 months ago and now it's at 0.05.
If he has HIFU he's been told will go to a hospital in London for it.
I don't think he's particularly keen on the idea of HT but he will of course do whatever is necessary.
In all honesty, he seemed a bit shaken and upset when I saw him last night and it's extremely rare that I've ever seen him like that before so I don't know if he's keeping something from me anyway. I think he was hoping his levels would be back to <0.02.
He does tend to keep certain details from me (I think he's worried about how I will deal with it). As a bit of background, my Mum was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 13, I lost my Mum three days before my 17th birthday and that sent me off the rails a little bit. I'm now 31 so it's a completely different time of life for me but Dad's prostate issues have been going on since I was around 23 so cancer has been an almost constant thing for me since a young age. I know he keeps certain things from me even though he doesn't need to, but I'm positive he lets me know anything important.
Dad's consultant did say that they usually wouldn't be having this type of conversation with him or even discussing these options with his levels so low, but due to him already having surgery so having no prostate and also having had radiotherapy, they are concerned by the sudden rise.
I'll keep this thread updated as much as I can.
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