Laney, it would be a great deal easier to follow developments and provide advice if you were to create a single thread about your dad, and post to it when necessary.
Waiting for results is the thing that most people probably find most stressful. You’re certainly not alone there. You can at least take comfort from the fact that prostate cancer is nowhere near as aggressive as pancreatic cancer. The 5-year survival rate for pancreatic cancer is 7%; for prostate cancer it’s 99%. If your dad does have localised prostate cancer it will almost certainly not kill him.
Chris