Its 4 years now since the radical surgery to remove my prostate and save me from PC. Incontinence was a major issue for maybe 6 or so months after surgery. Using maybe 5-6 heavy duty pads a day, since then ive reduced that to 1 slim pad a day, with sometimes no warning of when the dribble may appear.
My wife has been my rock through this all and without her support and understanding things would have been so different.
We have had no sexual activity since prior the operation as I am so very concious that any manual stimulation downstairs encourages urine to flow no matter that ive been to the toilet immediately prior. It is maybe a little amount by to me psychologically i feel that it would be a torrent to my wife.
As anyone any advice on what they have done, or I should try? Maybe I should just bite the bullet and go for it, maybe im making too much out of nothing, although a man of 51 shouldnt be wetting the bed even if it is in the name of a proper physical relationship.
I guess what I am asking is HELP!
anyone experienced similar?