Good evening all.
I decided to take a small break away from thinking about diagnosis for this weekend, so stayed away from everything related to it (including this forum) and I was very surprised to see so many valuable comments from you folks - a big thank you to all!
While we may be all be biased to some degree as Sumdum suggested, it's really useful to hear about different people experiences and the rationals behind the treatment option they decided on. I suppose one will never really have an answer to which treatment should have been chosen.
Like Nick pointed out, my urologist seems to qualify as a "high volume" surgeon with plenty of experience who performs such surgery 2-3 times a week. So that ticks the box.
I am actually based in South Africa and the national health standards here unfortunately does not yet seem to recommend a mpMRI before a biopsy takes place, and I had never been offered one as well. Also one of the reasons why I hadn't really thought about calling the nurse helpline on this page, but after all the recommendations it looks it's the way to go.
My MRI will take place mid-November so I suppose I cannot really make my final decision until I get the result, but will keep doing my research and will also keep you all posted. Many thanks.