Thank you for your very welcome advice. I thought the whole first telling I had seemed very rushed and chaotic, you had just been told you have cancer, the consultant is trying to get across his message, the nurse is butting in cutting him off and you are sent out with a load of bumf to digest on your own.
Having read your profile you seem to have been through the mill. I am glad things seem to be moving in the right direction, I hope things go on in the same way.
Thank you once again for you advice, much appreciated.