Thank you for your response. I am delighted to say that the tests all came back clear. No cancer. I am elated, my dad turns 77 tomorrow and I knkw he isn't going to be around forever but the thought of losing him to cancer terrified me. The thought of losing him at all terrifies me.
I am so grateful for all of the advice I was given personally and that i read on other posts, I can honestly say that having a place I could go for actual personal experience rather than facts and statistics given on medical sites/leaflets was a godsend, and made the last two weeks bearable and stopped me from having sleepless nights worrying.
I will remain on the forum and pop in and out, my dad has prostate problems that much is clear, and he will be having repeated tests in another 6 months to keep an eye on his prostate due to the problems he has and I imagine all you lovely lot will be there if anything ever crops up in the future.
I am very grateful to this forum and everyone in it, I am only sorry that for many the news won't be positive.