Hi Folks ,
I had the Radical prostatectomey in Aug 2014 . Obviously that Operation left me with Incontinence and because they scraped my Prostate Bed and the operation was old school , slicing a cavity into the abdominal region i.e. not remote , rebotic procedure I was left with Erectile Dysfunction . Due to physical problems , Sepsis etc with my wound I did not start using the Vacuum Pump until June of 2015 . To put things into accurate perspective , I was just an average lad , 6 3/4 " penis when erect with average girth . Pre-operation I had normal hard erections . When I first started using the pump , it was extremely painful and after discussion at my clinics I decided to just start very slowly using the pump to just get an erection and hold for 60 seconds and gradually build up . When it came to attempting with sex , it was very disappointing and the best I could achieve by Spring 2016 was a semi-erection that only worked in the Cow-Girl position i.e. my wife on top . Our marriage broke down in 2016 due to many factors , I dare say my physical problems paid a small part ... That semi-erection was achieved by using the two clear rings , and they were very painfully tight !!!
Due to many physical problems with my Cancer , normal life pressures etc .... I have not really used the pump , masturbated or had sex since early 2017 . I am now making very small progress with my Cancer . If you wish to check the background to all this .... read my other post ... Cancer gone to the spine by Bill&Ben67 under Advanced or Metastatic Cancer ....
As a result of making progress I would like to experience some kind of sex life and I would very much appreciate any feedback and useful tips from guys or their partners , where they are in the same boat as I . That is you have full ED and cannot get a natural erection . Any useful advice will be very much appreciated . Advice on success with the Soma Pump , other better methods , supplements . For instance I read online the news regarding Graham Norton and the supplement that his partner has been using to great effect . I am going to check that out . I look forward to any helpful advice .... many thanks