Had RP last December the 6th than the horrible monster catheter came off on the 20th,
Since than using only one single day pad and night time only one nappy:)
I found day pad is more managable.
Anyway I got few issues but my main concern is SEX LIFE!!!!
Before the operation I had a great sex life m
Never had any pains down there none of my relatives diagnosed with PC apart my older bro rather he passed away re colon cancer
Before the operation I never woken up for the bathroom duties night time at all.
Last april I spoke to my GP mentioned her about having feeling that not to fully empty my bladder than she refereed me to MRI (magic monster)
That came out something malignancy than had biopsy that came out 3+4 =7
So had to go ahead with RP
but my sex life is zero now yes almost a month after I had the RP maybe I'm a bit pessimistic but NHS says you can masturbate when you feel it
Some people on here says don,t be hurry but don't be too late either. (Confussed)
I been masturbating. Almost everyday since the cathere out ...it's not that I eat drink dream or think of sex all the time..it's just I don't wish my penis to get shrink that's all.
I Have a Girl friend very open minded one but I don't wish to force her when I'm not physically 100% well.
Poor fella has lost some part of his body anyway
So .....Question is Which is the best way to be cured to get back to have normal sex life again?
I feel was suicadele this morning. .honestly if I knew that I was going to be like this live like a monk ..No away I wouldn't go ahead with the operation.
OK I'm not a young man (age of 55) but I cannot imagine to given up of sex life at age 55 even 65!!!
Also if you suggest that pump would be beneficial than where shall I get them..I don't want to go to Soho and get it from the porn shops?
Please please please .do you any of you have any idea is there guarantee for my normal sex life to come back?
My follow up appointment will be at beginning of February.
Thank you all in advance for your kindness
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