I would really appreciate some feedback on a query - should I expect to see my Consultant during chemo, if so, how often, or will he just see me at the end of the course?
I last saw him on Xmas Eve (what a day for an appointment!) when he told me my PSA was up again and the recent bone scan showed the bone mets were spreading - Enzalutamide not working so stopped and the next thing would be chemo again - 10 sessions of docetaxel rather than the 6 I had nearly 3 years ago (during the course of which he saw me about halfway through then again at the end). He said he would see me in 4 weeks which I have to say my OH and I thought a bit soon as I would barely have started the chemo then, so I was not unduly worried when the appointment did not appear. However, the weeks moved on, still no appointment, and I rang his Secretary who said there seemed to have been a mix up and she would organise an appointment and ring me back - nothing further heard. It is now impossible to get hold of her as her voicemail is on permanently and if you leave a message to ring back, as requested, she never does. Spoke to my Specialist Nurse who also tried to see what was going on and a week or so ago she told me that my Consultant had a “huge backlog of appointments” (her words), was very worried about it and was holding a Saturday clinic to catch up and there was no indication on my notes that an appointment had been arranged. The Specialist Nurse is now off sick. None of this is very reassuring!
Should I be worried about all this or am I over-reacting - I am due to have my third chemo Friday next week, 22nd? I guess I am low priority for an appointment at this stage of the chemo anyway as my bloods and vital signs are carefully monitored by the Chemo Nurses, and we have an excellent 24/7 Acute Oncology Service we can contact at any time, but it would be good to know I will have an update on progress (or not) at some point - what has been other’s experience of seeing their Consultant during chemo?
Also, if the chemo doesn’t work this time, at what point does this become apparent? Would it be at the end of the whole 10 cycles or earlier than that?
Apart from all this, still feeling well and enjoying the sunny days.
Chris