Hello all,
On the 21st I was in Guys Hospital having RARP with nerve sparing etc and frozen sampling (apparently provides a better clue on clear margins.
The operation itself was 'technically difficult' according to the Prof, as there was some scarring from the 40-odd needle biopsy I had had 6 weeks previously.
I had a spinal injection to deaden the lower half of my body (good for pain relief I was told) and then wheeled in. The spinal injection was, I have to say, more uncomfortable than I expected!
Out of theatre and awake I felt ok of course as there was a drip, pain meds and effect of the spinal all going on. By day two I was out of bed and had a shower, by day 3 walking around the corridors and ready to come home.
Once home (and as of today) I am feeling not so great. I am extremely tired all the time, have massive bruising around the operation sites (mostly on my right side), not enjoying the suprapubic catheter and just feeling generally yuck. I had a bad headache most of Tuesday so the Prof suggested I stop self-injecting the Clexane and just keep mobile and keep the stockings on. Tomorrow I will be clamping the catheter before hopeful removal Friday.
My question is that most people seem to have really good experiences with RARP whereas I am feeling very tired and worn out, not sure how far I should be walking (On Monday I did two miles - apparently too much) anxious about blood clots (as not injecting the Clexane) and, I think, as it was private - generally not supported well post surgery (they kind of turf you out). Maybe I am being dramatic and need to understand it was major surgery but I am not joking when I say I feel worse than I did two days ago and the pain is tolerable but still quite intense in the abdomen (no chance of putting socks on or shoes myself!).
Anyone else out there had a similar experience or can relate to what I have written? Don't get me wrong, I understand there has to be pain before gain, but maybe my anxiety is being fed by feeling so rough!
Any advice really appreciated and I hope you are keeping well!
Mark