Thank you it’s good to talk as they say, A my husband has metastatic prostate cancer which has spread a long way into his bones and lymph nodes, he gets very tired with the side effects of the Prostap but it is working for now and keeping the beast under control.
We have been married 34 years this year and in some ways this awful situation has brought us closer together, we do try and take each day as it comes , A is better at that then me in the main. He is determined to make my 60th next year and stays very positive he is an inspiration.
Going for coffee and cake and watching a good film together make us happy and appreciate the little things in life which didn’t always do before. You have to adapt make changes which can be frustrating but we get over that and carry on trying to stay positive.
A doesn’t like to talk about the cancer unless he really has to whereas I find talking and sharing helpful so I have joined this forum on my own and already feel more supported.