I went down the HT/RT route. There are two sets of side-effects to consider: those of the HT and then the RT itself.
HT side-effects vary dramatically from person to person, but almost always include extreme loss of energy, complete loss of libido, and may include typically menopausal symptoms - hot flushes, mood swings, memory problems, weight gain, etc. I found my side-effects to be manageable; the one that affects me the most is the loss of energy - I feel shattered after doing the simplest physical activity. I was on HT for 6 months prior to my RT and am due to be on it for 2 years in total (now 10 months into it).
The RT side-effects weren't too bad at all. I had 30 fractions, so 6 weeks in all. The first three weeks or so were pretty much symptom-free, but in the latter part of my treatment I experienced a little diarrhoea, passing mucus from my back passage, problems with urine flow (the RT makes the prostate swell, which restricts the urethra) and increased urgency to urinate. At its worst I was having to get up every hour all night long. These are typical symptoms, and there are drugs which help a lot. Symptoms typically peak around 10-14 days after the end of RT.
You can continue with normal life during RT (being tied to the toilet aside) but it does take up a large part of your day. My daily sessions took around 4h in total with travelling, doing the prep at the hospital (drinking the right amount of water to prepare for the machine and using a micro-enema to empty the lower part of the bowel) but get into the swing of things and weeks go by. I saw my oncologist weekly during my RT to keep an eye on side-effects, etc, but I had my treatment privately and I don't know if this would be the case on the NHS.
All in all RT wasn't too bad. Within a month of the end of treatment all the side-effects, with the exception of a slightly increased need to urinate frequently, had gone away. RT is certainly nothing to worry about. I'm single and managed all the travel, etc, alone just fine.
Hope that's of some help to you,
Chris
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