If you've not already done so, Patrick, I'd suggest that you request a consultation with an oncologist. Urologists do surgery, oncologists do non-surgical treatment such as brachytherapy and radiotherapy, and each has a perfectly natural tendency to suggest their own field of expertise as the best way forward!
I was in a fairly similar position to you. At age 55 in May 2018 I too was diagnosed with G3+4 cancer, but in my case the fact it was coupled with a relatively high PSA reading of 32 meant that both my urologist and oncologist felt that hormone therapy followed by radiotherapy would be the best way forward for me. I started on HT last August, had my RT in Feb and Mar this year, and things are looking pretty good thus far. I had relatively few side-effects from either the HT or RT and, although I'll be on the HT drugs for another 14 months or so, that's something I can live with. Personally, I don't think I could live with the knowledge that I had cancer inside me - one thing that's for sure is that it's not going to go away if you ignore it - but we all have a different perspective on these matters.
We are a very supportive community here which has helped me enormously on my journey through the treatment of this disease. You've come to the right place for support. If you have any medical questions, you can ring the PCUK nurses on the Freephone number at the top of the screen. They are very knowledgeable and helpful.
Very best wishes,
Chris
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