Even though I have previously said goodnight to Paul , I don’t feel that my words have given the right goodnight that he deserves.
He was one of the first to reply to my oh so many dramatic and jumbled pleas for help all those years ago . Over the years his calm sense of acceptance helped me to arrive at my own acceptance of the circle of life .
He probably never knew how much his words helped and made sense of Trevor’s journey and my acceptance of what was about to happen and the inevitability of our very own Ever Decreasing Circles . His calmness and honesty , his acceptance of death but his love of life gave me so much strength .
So a letter to you Paul
Hi Paul ,
Hey I here you moved ? I know you are not a fan of over emotional stuff and are probably focusing on your cricket . I did here this summer is going to be very busy for you as you have so many things planned . Let’s hope the rain holds off .
Have a fab summer
love you loads
xxx
BFN Julie 😘
Dear Paul ,
you might never get a chance to read this but I am so grateful and Thankful that I was privileged to know you , your every Decreasing circle encompasses so many . Many more than you will ever know .