Hi Andrew
I’m Neil ( harvey62), thank you for taking the time to send a message.
I agree with you 100%,
going back to October ( my operation), since the op I’ve been struggling enormously, no one has come forward with any help. I’ve been the one that’s been pushing for answers. When I go to urologist doctors for help, they immediately dismiss me and tell me to get help from the oncologist, so when I do that, the oncologist will tell me to go back to the urologist!! In the meantime I’m struggling with pain.
I’ve found from this last 9 months, nobody wants to take responsibility for anything.
radiotherapy. The radiographers were fantastic, every day asking how I was feeling and giving detailed advice as to what will be happening from each stage of the therapy. At first I thought I would sail through the radiotherapy, then at the 18th session, it all hit me like a juggernaut! From my stomach down, the pains were excruciating. The radiographers explained that the radiation was interfering with the tissues from the operation, also the bladder wall would become slightly thinner and narrow and my bowel would be slightly damaged, especially at the front rectum. They helped as best as they could, giving me creams and gels until I got properly looked at by the oncologist specialist. But when I went to see the specialist they would say that the problems I were experiencing was nothing to do with radiotherapy!! I would therefore say, what is causing these problems? They would say we don’t know, go to urologist they will help!!. So no one will take responsibility. NHS what a mess.....