I have to agree with Andy that the MDT should have reviewed your case and have included both an oncologist and a surgeon. In my case it was left to me, they prefer the patient to decide. They also worry about over treatment and I was offered Active Surveillance as long as I had a template biopsy. To me that sounded absolutely no go.
In your case with a tendency to bowel cancer perhaps the radiation will be a bad idea as people get cancer through the radiation. Although I obviously don't know that for your case.
I've not read anyone regretting what they choose although some regret that they weren't given choices usually because it was not recommended or permitted for medical reasons on the NHS. Probably on private treatment you can have what you can afford and is sensible.
I've said this a lot but I've absolutely never regretted having the op and still have options of radiation and none of my hormone time limitation taken if chance needs it.
It can depend on your condition. If you think its not time critical then you could ask for an appointment with an oncologist or ask why not. In my case it was said to be near the edge and was told an op could be 4 weeks so didn't want to wait over Xmas to meet someone else then go back to an op.
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