Hi Chris,
No worries mate, totally understand. Met my consultant yesterday and gave just received a date for my CT scan already, 30th July, so at least it ain't to far away.
The mets were not there at diagnosis but came later. That's me posted my notice to my work now, been off since last October so decided that now I'm an auld guy, just turned 60, it was time to go.
Good to hear that you've had the good QoL. Looking back I think I've coped well with everything. Kept working upto last October, biggest and saddest thing was the sex side of life but my surgeon did say pick one sex or life so to me it was a no brainer. Like yourself Chris, the s*** was gonna hit the fan sometime.
Good luck for the scans mate.
Sandy