Hi everyone,
I know this is a UK organization and I'm from the United States, so I hope it's OK that I post here-- this is one of the best forums I can find.
My Dad has just been diagnosed with his second biochemical recurrence of prostate cancer. He was originally diagnosed with PC in 2011 at the age of 57 and he had a radical prostatectomy. His PSA began to creep back up in 2016 and he was treated with salvage radiation (I’m unsure of how many treatments) and one hormone shot (I’m unsure of which one). The salvage therapy brought his PSA back down to 0.062 and we were good to go.
His PSA began to creep up again in April of this year, but I’m not sure what the number was then. He chose to keep a watchful eye on it, but by October of this year, his PSA had dramatically shot up to 20. They tested it twice to make sure it wasn’t a false reading and, a week after, it was at 22. CT and PET scans showed that he has two enlarged pelvic lymph nodes, which is probably cancer, but it is thankfully not in his bones.
I am extremely unhappy with his current urologist as they are making us wait FIVE WEEKS for an appointment and they would not tell him anything regarding his prognosis, whether he could ever potentially go into remission again or if the cancer was aggressive (which we all assume it is due to his PSA count and the PSA velocity). I’ve made him an appointment at Vanderbilt Medical Center in Nashville for a second opinion, a couple weeks after his first appointment with his current urologist.
Dad is my favorite person in the entire world and I am NOT ready for him to go yet. I’m posting because I want to aggressively fight this and I’m seeking advice, guidance, links to resources you like and/or stories from those who have been in similar situations as my Dad’s. I know we won’t get all the answers until we hear more from the docs, but I’m going out of my mind with worry since they decided to leave us totally in the dark, so researching and posting about it makes me feel useful. Here are some things on my mind that I’d love to start a discussion about:
- Has anyone ever had/know of someone who has had a salvage lymph node dissection/removal after radical prostatectomy and what was the outcome?
- If removing the lymph nodes is possible (and I’ve found several studies that say it is and that it’s potentially beneficial), does Dad’s PSA of 20 make him ineligible for such a surgery?
- With a PSA of 20, but only two enlarged lymph nodes, does that mean there’s lots of cancer floating around elsewhere in his body and we just can’t see it yet?
- Does his high PSA velocity and PSA doubling time mean that it’s super aggressive?
- Has anyone else had a similar journey as Dad? How long have you been living with advanced PC? What is your quality of life like?
- Any patients or caretakers in similar situations who wish they had opted for a different kind of treatment or path than what they did?
- I want him to have the cancer genetically tested so that it can be treated individually and not with standard of care—anyone done this?
- Particular website or blog you keep up with?
- Give me ANY and ALL advice you have—I’m not interested in sugar coating. I want to know the truth so that I know what next best steps to take.
- Any websites or blogs that you keep up with that post about the latest in PC research and treatments?
I know he’s got a really, really tough battle ahead of him and I’m not ignorant of the fact that his particular situation is pretty grim. But, I have found links for a few websites where it actually says that PC that has spread to the lymph nodes, but NOT the bones is still potentially “curable”, or at least possible for him to go into remission. Here is one such link: https://pcri.org/insights-blog/2019/5/20/video-prostate-cancer-recurrence-in-pelvic-lymph-nodes-high-indigo-stage
In the third paragraph, it states, “So this may be the last chance to actually cure the disease.”
Dad is currently 65 and in wonderful health aside from the cancer. He’s a farmer and is always on his feet getting lots of exercise and he eats pretty well. I’d love to start ANY kind of discussion about this and would love to hear feedback from any and every one.
Thanks so much!
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