My hubby has just been diagnosed with prostate cancer. He has had bladder cancer since 2011 which has been treated several times but been free of any further recurrences for about 3 years, but has 6 monthly cystoscopys. It was after his last one that he got a nasty urine infection that wouldn't go away that gp did a blood test that showed psa at 17 where he was referred to urologist. Biopsy has confirmed he has cancer in prostate. Gleason 8. Has been offered with radiotherapy or removal. Consultant scared him by saying they could remove bladder at same time as prostate if he chose removal as it would be easier op. He really does not want a bag on, and is now really scared. Any advice please...