Im afraid it's all a bit like treading water for me at the moment James as I am trying to support my partner by finding out as much information as I can. We haven't been together as a couple very long although we have been friends for some time as I was recovering from the after-effects of colon cancer when he was diagnosed in 2017 with his.
I found myself having to deal with my own cancer journey very much on my own and so want to support my partner as much as I possibly can. We do have a local support group which we visited last week and chatted to a great guy who has been on HT for the last 14 years which made us feel a little better.
I think what's taken us both by surprise really is how quickly the HT has kicked in but as I read on someone else's post I guess it means the bicalutamide is doing its job. Within a couple of days of starting the HT, the fatigue began and he had an upset tummy for a couple of days but that seems to have gone now. His libido has now disappeared and the sleep disturbance has really only been the last few days and although as Chris says this may be due to him having night flushes he hasn't mentioned feeling flushed so not sure. He said to me on the way to the support group the other day that he just feels very odd.