The fact that he has already been put onto hormone treatment and morphine suggests that his cancer is advanced - sometimes, when the cancer can be clearly seen on MRI and bone scans, they don't bother doing the biopsy and it seems you may fall into that group, particularly as his PSA was so high it can't be anything other than prostate cancer.
Questions to ask:-
- how often should he get a PSA test?
- is that to be done at the hospital or GP practice?
- how do we get the result?
- how extensive is the cancer?
- if it is in the spine, what are the signs of spinal cord compression that we should look for and who do we phone if it happens?
- who do we speak to about any general worries / questions / side effects?
Has he been asked to get a PSA test before next week's appointment?
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My point Matron was that in his situation, it would be far preferable to be able to ask all the pertinent questions above, direct to the consultant in person (all precautions being observed of course, even ten foot away on the other side of an office), rather than an anonymous telephone consultation.
I bet the consultant would have no objection to that, and that it’s someone ‘back office’ bound by ‘protocol’ rules that’s setting the agenda.
It will be a rather important conversation after all...
Cheers, John.
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What are you wittering about Bollinge ... I didn't say anything to contradict your post!
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Ah, you thought I was correcting you because my reply was in third person?
No, I was responding to KeithH who was asking about their partner.
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Thank you for your really useful and valuable reply. It is s real help.
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No requests for PSA test. No contact whatsoever. My partner won't let me call as he is worried about biopsy and covid. In the twice that his prostate was examined by GP an consultant he has been in terrible pain.
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Something strange there. A DRE shouldn't be painful. Uncomfortable, yes, but not painful.
Best wishes,
Chris
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You don't normally see people put onto oramorph straight after the scan - the tumour might be extensive in the pelvic area or into the bowel or tailbone? Another good reason for them not doing a biopsy perhaps.
KeithH, it is not common for a consultant to actually be present at an ultrasound but they are more likely to have been a radiologist or possibly a urologist than anything else. If the scan showed advanced prostate cancer your husband will have been transferred to an oncologist and that is why you haven't heard anything more from the first doctor.
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It is if you have hemaroids and or anal fissure.
Cheers
Bill