Hi Steve-thanks for your sharing. Congratulations on all the progress you have made. Sorry about the bursitis.
i start week 8 of recovery on Monday. I haven't heard anyone speak of this but if I start my trail run on a medium grade uphill very slow my heart rate immediately goes up to 150 which almost 100% shuts down the bodies pee response. I keep up the heart rate above 150 on the flat and downhill (2 to 3 miles) My legs, running body feels great after the rest from surgery, so it's that runner's high to be back on the trails again. I do wear pad but almost no leaking.
I'm doing better at night. One alarm set for three hours--wake up with strong urge but PV floor muscles are stronger now so I can make it to jon for a big pee with no leaks, then I sleep about 3 more hours and wake witthout alarm. Very minimal pee in pad overnight. Then I wear no pad from 4am until 9 when i sit and meditate and write, then go for walk or run.
The jury is out on my afternoon to evening slow leaking into pads while on kitchen duty. (I wish i had a maid) My wife has it worse than me with nerve pain from breast cancer treatments and can't use her arms. I tried that incontinence clamp for during my kitchen time. At first it worked nicely. Second time it didn't and I had misgivings about clamping down on my private fellow!!! My pelvic PT is giving me more exercises that integrate PF muscle with other muscle groups and movements, and she said to lay down for short rests with legs up on pillows in afternoon, evening. I hope i start to improve. On a leaky day I can go through about 4 pads from 2pm to 9pm, and it's not any great pain but a sucky feeling having the pee seep out.
I want to start training for our local, Santa Rosa, CA Annadel Half marathon next April. It's a very technical hilly rocky course. Last year I only ran the 10K of it because I was recovering from inguinal hernia surgery. I will have to do extra conditioning along with my running to get legs strong enough to endure the course, but that should be good for my continence too, I hope.
Best Healing to you,
Brian M from the California trails