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User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 15:19

Hi All,


Hope someone can point me in the right direction here.


Just been Diagnosed about 3 hours ago. :((, via the phone!


Age 58. Had symptom of painful ejaculation from last October , saw GP, PAS level of 8.2 in April, put on antibiotics. All cleared up, but 2nd PSA of 8.4 in  early July. Had biopsy done last week., results was a Gleason score of (I think) 4 + 3 =7.  Not sure of my T level didnt say but was told I have other factors.??..and told it was aggressive however. have a small prostate?


Been told that I need another scan, sorry no idea what type then if Clear (??), Have a meet, then have a Da Vinci Robotic Prostate Surgery done. I assume to remove the whole prostate. No Other treatments being offered.  WHY?, However seems I am with the Top person which is good, but need to know what questions to ask now.......


Sorry if this doesnt make sense, but a bit er "out of sorts" at the moment and in "Panic" mode. Consultant seems to think I will be ok however.


Many thanks all


Paul

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 01:26

There are two possibilities -
1. The urologist has only offered surgery because that is what urologists specialise in, and if you ask to see an oncologist, they may offer you alternatives like radiotherapy or brachytherapy; or


2. The 'other factors' are that you don't have adenocarcinoma (the most common type of prostate cancer) but one of the rarer types that don't respond so well to RT / HT and are best dealt with by surgery. There are at least 27 types. 


So as suggested above, you can ask why surgery is the only option at the moment, and about whether the G7 is a 3+4 or a 4+3 and all the other things suggested but the most important question may be "what type of prostate cancer is it?"

Edited by member 07 Aug 2020 at 01:26  | Reason: Not specified

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 20:29
It is almost always easier to bear once the decision is made.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 20:51

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member


I do however feel strangely “happy” that I am on this route, I just didn't fancy taking my chances with surgery.



Sound advice is; if you can't decide then toss a coin. If you find yourself praying that it will come up one side and not the other, then put the coin back in your pocket and go with what you clearly wanted anyway. 

Dave

User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 21:38

Think I would have gone exactly the same route in your position. Hope everything goes well 

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User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 16:07

Paul


Typically, but not always the surgery and RT with or without HT are offered. Have you had any previous Radiation therapy.


The scan will either be bone,CT or possibly both.


There is some useful information in the download kit and the nurses on here are very helpful.


Thanks Chris

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 16:09

Hi Paul


I completely understand what you are feeling at the moment. I’m 53 and was diagnosed last December with Pc the same Gleason score, and my psa was 13, my prostate was enlarged, I had no symptoms at all so was a real shock.


The next scan would probably be a bone scan which will determine if the cancer has spread outside of the prostate. This is a painless procedure, although they inject you on arrival and ask you to return in 3 hours for the scan. Once you’ve had it it’s usually around 2 weeks before your consultant will call you in for the results.


Regarding your options, my understanding is this, if you are still fairly young offering HT and RT is not the best option as side effects of these treatments can manifest and cause problems. HT and RT are usually offered to older gents. The general opinion is that Robotic Assist Prostecomy is deemed to offer the best chances of getting rid of the cancer. Obviously there are side effects with this procedure also, and I advise you to read previous posts on this site as these can be very helpful.


I had my surgery on 9th July and seem to be doing ok. The build up to the surgery is stressful but the actual operation is a breeze as you’ll asleep and everyone is very helpful when you wake up. The catheter is uncomfortable and a hinderance but will be out in 10 to 12 days, also the staples aren’t a problem at all and virtually painless when removed. One tip is to buy a Ugofix catheter bag socks they are such a game changer, costing approx £10 for 4.


I know this probably a lot to take in but feel free to msg me anytime, if I can help then I’m only to happy 


Regards


Carl.

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 16:10

Hi Paul,


I'm sure its all a bit of a shock (as it was for any of us) but you should get plenty of help on here.


Have you already had an MRI scan?


Assuming that the cancer is all contained within the prostate then nerve sparing surgery may well be a very viable option.


However, RT with possibly HT may be another option. Have a look at my profile for a bit of background. And ask away on here


 

Edited by member 06 Aug 2020 at 16:11  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 16:39

Thanks Chris and Carl for the Quick reply.


Sorry  RT and HT terms meaning, radiotherapy Therapy and Hormonal Therapy?.


I have had a MRI scan, which was inconclusive, other than a "fuzzy" area, hence the Biopsy.  Thanks for Info on 2nd scan, makes sense that.


 


So with this Robotic Assist Prostecomy , thats the whole removal of the prostate I assume?


Seems quite drastic, but have read up about it and does seem the best way forward in getting rid of the cancer. .


Cheers


Paul


 


 

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 16:53

RT and HT as you have summised


It is the whole prostate out and with it hopefully the whole of the cancer.


Operation is OK and expect several weeks of recovery but nothing too bad ( considering its a major operation)


Main concerns generally are 


incontinence- for many this is short lived


erectile disfunction- slower recovery but can be achieved depending upon a number of factors

Edited by member 06 Aug 2020 at 16:54  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 16:57

Thanks Mike, That Helps a lot.....


Paul

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 17:07

Some of things you will want to know


Is it Gleason 4+3 or 3+4


From the biopsy how many cores had cancer, on which side(s) and what percentage


What stage is the Cancer T1 then a letter, T2 then a letter , T3 then a letter 


Anything spread out side of the prostate or close to the prostate edge


Is he looking at nerve sparing? Both sides or just the 1


 

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 19:59

Where are you having your surgery done ?

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 20:31
Just to say Robotic Surgery certainly shortens the recovery period but in some cases 'open' is considered more appropriate and there is little to choose between eventual outcomes. If a bone scans shows cancer has gone to bone it may be that the surgery option is withdrawn and treatment plan rethought but hopefully this won't be the case.
Barry
User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 21:01

Hi Paul,


Wow.. No way to hear news, even in these current restrictions.  Take it easy.   Download toolkit and slowly build up knowledge . Do you have anyone to immediately support and share with ?


Terms are all relevant, aggressive does not mean you have days or weeks to make decisions.


Post and ask questions, there is more than 1 solution.


 


All the best 


Gordon

User
Posted 06 Aug 2020 at 21:46

Hi, 


Most people don't recall exactly what was said.  It can be better to go with someone else or to have a Macmillan Nurse/Specialist Nurse who you can ask.


Some doctors can make you more worried using the term aggressive.   Perhaps the 4+3 is the reason.   Although that is the 5th level out of 7.  The same grade mine was diagnosed as.


Being offered an op is good.  Presumably subject to a bone scan, unless they're doing something else.    They fit me in for a bone scan with a few hours notice.  You have a nuclear injection a few hours before then go away and come back.  I think they were having lunch while I was being scanned, it takes about half an hour no messing about with fancy dress.


You could ask why they didn't offer RT or alternatives like Brachytherapy.   Although I'd have been happy just to be offered the op if it was being done quickly or you particularly wanted RT.   Sometimes if you see a surgeon they might offer you surgery and you have to ask for something else although there should be a full team, The MDT or multi-disciplinary team, who have reviewed your case from all perspectives.   Perhaps with Covid they're more limited.


You could ask if he'll save any nerves and roughly where the lesion is located.  He did a little drawing of mine.


Some people are willing to wait and look at options but I wasn't.  Largely because it was near the edge of the prostate.


All the best, Peter

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 01:26

There are two possibilities -
1. The urologist has only offered surgery because that is what urologists specialise in, and if you ask to see an oncologist, they may offer you alternatives like radiotherapy or brachytherapy; or


2. The 'other factors' are that you don't have adenocarcinoma (the most common type of prostate cancer) but one of the rarer types that don't respond so well to RT / HT and are best dealt with by surgery. There are at least 27 types. 


So as suggested above, you can ask why surgery is the only option at the moment, and about whether the G7 is a 3+4 or a 4+3 and all the other things suggested but the most important question may be "what type of prostate cancer is it?"

Edited by member 07 Aug 2020 at 01:26  | Reason: Not specified

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 09:05

"Regarding your options, my understanding is this, if you are still fairly young offering HT and RT is not the best option as side effects of these treatments can manifest and cause problems. HT and RT are usually offered to older gents. The general opinion is that Robotic Assist Prostecomy is deemed to offer the best chances of getting rid of the cancer."


This isn't right, Carlos. It may have been true for you but that doesn't make it true for everyone.


"RT can manifest and cause problems" - there is a small chance that it can increase the risk of bowel or bladder cancer some 15 / 20 years later but I think the increase is 4% or something like that, so negligible when deciding on a treatment to prevent you dying of prostate cancer rather sooner than 15 / 20 years.


It is also not right to say that surgery gives the best chance of getting rid of the cancer. A large scale European research project published last year (or the year before, I am not sure now) showed that all things being equal, surgery, radiotherapy and brachy have almost identical remission rates at 10 years ... it is the side effect rates that vary, not the success rates. Having said that, another research project found that AS has almost the same remission rate as active treatment.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 10:59
The first thing Paul, is to “calm down dear”.

Sorry to hear of your unfortunate news, but from what you have said prostatectomy is not your only option, and your cancer diagnosis is not a death sentence, to which many others here are able to attest.

It was a shock for you, but not for me when the consultant - (then face-to face) - told me the news, as I had already twigged that a rise in PSA from 2 to 16 meant that something was going on.

You will have to wait for your next scan, presumably a bone scan, and then when all the results are in, think about ongoing treatment. If you are scientifically or medically-minded you might like to request all your medical records of those tests from the hospital for a nominal fee.

I had a (was going to write hysterectomy!) prostatectomy over two years ago by a leading surgeon, and I have no cancer, no incontinence, no erectile function and he still owes me 2”, as my only side effects. The surgery and recuperation were virtually painless.

When you have more comprehensive information about your case, come back to us as there is a wealth of knowledge and personal experience here to help and advise you through this hiccup in your life!

Best of luck.

Cheers, John.
User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 12:19

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

 and I have no cancer, no incontinence, no erectile function 


Hi John can you clarify is that "no erectile function" -or- "no erectile disfunction" it could make a big difference to the decision?


 

Dave

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 14:24

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member


Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

 and I have no cancer, no incontinence, no erectile function 


Hi John can you clarify is that "no erectile function" -or- "no erectile disfunction" it could make a big difference to the decision?


 



I think in layman’s terms, what I have is a truncated limp dick, useful for pissing through and little else...😉😷😂

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 14:40

Thanks Guys, This is All very helpful. feel a lot better today....


I had a follow up call. The Gleason score was 4+3 and I was a T2, NO letter, as they wanted a 2nd scan. 


I had 10 biopsys done (The surgeon at the time told me 12???). Was told, that 5 were positive which was 60% 4 and 40% 3, 5 negative. ????


The scan  is being done on Thursday at the Royal Marsden, Sutton and the consultant is based in Chelsea. Not sure I I am allow, or should put his name down...He did say, I think that RT/HT was not appropriate in my case.


Thanks again


Paul

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 14:56

Fingers crossed for you for the scan.


Think it was Jan this year that for me staging went to T2 and PSA started to rise (again) Had decided to go for surgery after meeting with him and it all happened on March 23rd this year. 


It was an anxious wait and worrying time pre-surgery but a huge relief waking up afterwards having all gone well.


4 1/2 months on life feels back to normal. PSA undetectable at <0.003. No incontinence issues at all and no ED issues apart from still taking a 50mg viagra for "events" 


Every situation is different but just wanted to give you some reassurance that there can be light at the end of the tunnel.


 


 

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 14:58

Thanks Mike...

User
Posted 07 Aug 2020 at 15:48
When you get the full information, as mentioned before, there is nothing to stop you talking to an oncologist about potential alternatives to surgical treatment, but bear in mind your particular case should already have been considered by a panel of experts of various medical disciplines, called the “MDT” or Multi-Disciplinary Team, who will have made recommendations about going forward.

Cheers, John.
User
Posted 08 Aug 2020 at 01:07
To be pedantic, you had one biopsy at which cores where extracted. The number of needles used for this can vary but most often is 12 in the TRUS biopsy you will have had.

As John says, you are likely to lose some length of your penis due to cutting and rejoining the pipe during the op. However, a combination of HT and RT can also lead to a reduction in your penis. It is therefore important that you take measures at the appropriate time to maintain size and function after treatment.
Barry
User
Posted 08 Aug 2020 at 11:56

Thanks Barry, that was something I hadn't thought off.


I "assume" that if all being well, the I may get a erection but not able to ejeculate ?


Scan, which is a Gallium PSMA PET/CT scan is this coming Thursday. 


I have also seen that high intensity focused ultrasound could be a way forward. Does anyone have any Knowledge on this?


Thanks again, this has been so helpful.


Paul

User
Posted 08 Aug 2020 at 13:38
Well, you are ‘lucky’ to have the Ga68 PET-PSMA scan at a cost of around £2600 (unlucky to have to have it, of course), as that is considered to be one of the most accurate scans to locate cancer and moreover any metastases.

Are you going private or on the NHS? There are only a handful of places that do Gallium scans in Britain, one being the Paul Strickland charity centre in London.

The radioactive Gallium tracer is very difficult to produce with a short half-life, so don’t be too upset if at the last minute you are told your appointment has been rescheduled.

Cheers, John.
User
Posted 08 Aug 2020 at 13:59

It can also work the other way round that you might not be able to get an erection to enable penetration but can still climax through masturbation or stimulation by another means, orally for example. After prostatectomy those that ejaculate are very likely to find the fluid more transparent. Some men say the feeling is different and a few better than before, others not so good. It's subjective and variable. After EBRT the fluid also tends to become progressively more transparent and less in quantity.  In due course you may have a dry climax. With RT erections also become less. Some men find pumps and tablets etc, help preserve or help function after both RT and surgery. Men do experience different results.


The PSMA scan serves to show any spread to bones and elsewhere.


HIFU is a niche treatment for which you have to be a suitable candidate. There are situations that could rule it out, for example if your PSMA scan shows the cancer has spread to bone or has gone to where the HIFU wand cannot focus the sound or if the amount and location of your cancer is too great for HIFU to treat. As with all forms of treatment, there are pros and cons with HIFU but until all your tests/scans have been evaluated it is too early to consider this. Actually, there is another treatment called Cryotherapy that a few men have but here again you have to be shown to be a suitable candidate.

Edited by member 08 Aug 2020 at 15:46  | Reason: Not specified

Barry
User
Posted 08 Aug 2020 at 14:44

Thanks John, Barry.


I am on the NHS, maybe I only live about 4 miles away from Royal Marsden in Sutton that I am being offered it, plus age??????


Take your point about getting all the tests done before knowing which one to go for but not heard of Cryotheraapy, will look up thanks.


Paul

User
Posted 08 Aug 2020 at 16:11
Both HIFU and Cryotherapy are treatments that come under the term 'Focal', the first destroying cancer cells by heat and the latter by formation of an ice ball. There are other focal treatments such as FLA (Focal Laser Ablation) but this is not available in the UK yet to the best of my knowledge.

Like you I lived close to the Sutton Branch of the Royal Marsden at the time of my diagnosis, Coulsdon to be precise and started HT at that hospital before moving house. I did ask if they would do a 68 Gallium PSMA test on me in 2015 but they were unable to do this on the NHS at that time. They quoted circa £3,500 for doing the scan privately which was by far the most expensive price I obtained so I paid for it to be done elsewhere.
Barry
User
Posted 14 Aug 2020 at 16:30

Well. Had by PET scan and got results.


Seems its gone to both sides of the prostate, and is "touching" a small lymph node. No sign of Metastasis.


Next meeting is next Thursday as there "bumping" me up. With a Consultant specialising in radiotherapy, although I have been told nothing has been decided with out going though all the options.


Didnt want to say anything about my T level, other than we lets get you booked in ASAP...but I guess T3 now.


Very worried, but one step at a time i suppose....


Paul


 

User
Posted 15 Aug 2020 at 06:54
Hi Paul,

Why do you assume you are T3? Your cancer is probably contained within your prostate, so unless you have a prostatectomy and subsequent biopsy you will never know. Radiotherapy should kill it all off anyway if that’s what you opt for.

I think you have over-researched your condition (like we all did!)

Best of luck, anyway.

Cheers, John (T3a - 26 months post-op, PSA undetectable)
User
Posted 15 Aug 2020 at 09:31

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Hi Paul,

Why do you assume you are T3? Your cancer is probably contained within your prostate


He said it was "touching a lymph node". Can it be doing that if it's still contained in the prostate?


(I would think not, but don't know for sure.)

_____


Two cannibals named Ectomy and Prost, all alone on a Desert island.


Prost was the strongest, so Prost ate Ectomy.

User
Posted 15 Aug 2020 at 10:57

Hi John


Point taken about over-researching stuff. Need to chill out a bit ithink. I assume T3 as it was touching, but they were very vague on the phone, so putting 2+2 and making 5....!!


Thanks again


Paul

User
Posted 15 Aug 2020 at 21:54

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member


Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Hi Paul,

Why do you assume you are T3? Your cancer is probably contained within your prostate


He said it was "touching a lymph node". Can it be doing that if it's still contained in the prostate?


(I would think not, but don't know for sure.)



Sometimes, doctors make comments without realising that patients or their families will analyse every word afterwards. The doctor may have been speaking literally, in which case yes it sounds like you will be upgraded to T3. Or he may have been speaking figuratively, in which case you are still a T2. 

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 20 Aug 2020 at 15:13

Update.


Saw the radiologist today. Explained that while I was a T2, the PET scan seem to show that a Lymph node 9 mm long was showing as "suspicious".....


Radiologist said that If I have surgery, I have a 90% chance of needing Radio/Hormone therapy anyway. Of course If I did the R/H Therapy , Surgery would be a lot more complicated after that.


Seeing Surgeon on Wednesday.


All a bit of a blur.


Paul


  

User
Posted 20 Aug 2020 at 17:05

Well glad you are making progress with the diagnosis.


I went the surgery route based on being told that it was at least 80% likely that I wouldn't need any further treatment.


If its 90% likely you will then I don't know why they would go the surgery route? Will be interesting to see what the surgeon has to say.


Good luck


 

User
Posted 20 Aug 2020 at 17:10
I don't understand why anyone goes for surgery knowing that there is a strong chance of needing adjuvant RT, either - two sets of side effects and if the op leaves a man incontinent the RT is so much more difficult to endure.

It will be useful to clarify with the surgeon whether the op would still be nerve sparing on one or both sides.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 14:03

Hi All,


Saw Surgeon on Wednesday.


Was happy to do the surgery, but told me that I had only a 40% chance of the nerves being save (It might have been he could save only 40%, mind was a blur, to be honest, even with the wife there) , and that in his view it was 50/50 that I would have need HT/RT anyway.. Said he could the lymph node out, but there was no evidence that it would help in my case, as I was a N1.


A follow up letter from the radiologist to my GP stated that the PSMA PET scan showed a 9 mm low grade PSMA avid distal left common iliac node suspicious for involved nodel disease.


So with that, I decided that Surgery was out, and that HT/RT is the way to go… The surgeon did say that he could do surgery at a later date, but would be a more difficult operation, and I suspect I will lose all the nerves.


Started the HT on Friday, (Tables 1st), Injection on the 7th. I do however feel strangely “happy” that I am on this route, I just didn't fancy taking my chances with surgery.


Thanks for all you input


Paul

User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 20:29
It is almost always easier to bear once the decision is made.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 20:51

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member


I do however feel strangely “happy” that I am on this route, I just didn't fancy taking my chances with surgery.



Sound advice is; if you can't decide then toss a coin. If you find yourself praying that it will come up one side and not the other, then put the coin back in your pocket and go with what you clearly wanted anyway. 

Dave

User
Posted 31 Aug 2020 at 21:38

Think I would have gone exactly the same route in your position. Hope everything goes well 

User
Posted 09 Sep 2020 at 19:47

Hi I had diagnosis at end of March with a Gleason 3+3 confined to the prostate. I  was offered Prostatectomy in time due to Covid. But given Hormone tablets for 3 months with option of Prostatectomy or Radiotherapy. Not wanting either of these I looked into HIFU which wasn't doable and then Focal Cryotherapy. I t took a while but I  got a referral from GP and had the treatment in August. Still have Catheter which I hope to have removed soon . Hoping for a low PSA in 11 weeks time. 2 hour procedure under general anaesthetic  No pain 👍My PSA was 5.2 at highest.


 

User
Posted 10 Sep 2020 at 11:12
John,

It would be helpful if you put all your details under your profile/bio as salient information tends to become buried in a thread, particularly in another persons. It appears you had cryotherapy, something very few men have, at least in the UK. It would be especially interesting therefore, If you start a thread (or conversation at PCUK tend to call it), detailing your experience and progress and update this from time to time as you feel appropriate, as others may wish to consider this form of treatment.
Barry
 
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