This is my first post and I’m hoping to get some ‘real life’ comment on my situation. I was first diagnosed in February 19 ( psa 7.9, Gleason 4+3) and had a RP end of April 19. The operation went fine other than on review in July 19 my psa had not dropped to zero and was 0.06- more alarmingly the involvement of one lymph node was confirmed ( no extracapsular extension ..). Referred to oncologist for review and psa rose to 0.23 by October. Started on Bicalutamide to suppress the situation and psa dropped below 0.1 and has stayed at that level.
As an aside I met with three oncologists and have chosen the one that I felt related best to my concerns and situation .
Covid delayed things a little but in July completed a course of salvage radiotherapy on both prostate bed and lymph nodes ( fortunately this all went well too and I have very little side effects). I reached the milestone of 60 years old in July too.
My question for this group is what really is my outlook. I ask this not from a position of morbidity but with a young family, planned home move, etc I want to make the most informed life decisions.
If I’m likely only going to be around for say 2-3 years I want to make the best of that time and make all the provisions to leave a good lifestyle for my family.
Any answers really appreciated...