Hi, to everyone who has replied and offered such great insights. I apologise for not answering sooner, I hadn't realised that you had responded.
I had a call on Saturday from my prospective surgeon (Doctors name edited by moderator) (I can't put a link on here but you could Google him, he gets good reviews). He has completed about 150 HIFU operations he says, in London. The call lasted about 30mins and I had a big list of questions ready. I can provide these if you're interested.
I was very impressed with (Doctors name edited by moderator) and did not feel like it was the sales pitch, more a professional assessment. He initially asked a few questions. I've been swinging to and fro on what to do, however I have reached a conclusion and that is HIFU, if I qualify (he said it was likely but he will confirm soon). The comments above endorse the fact that there may be more sinister outcomes, I'm yet to discover.
The upshot is that he did not have my MRI results to-hand, is expecting these from my hospital this week, is discussing my case tomorrow with his colleagues after which he'll get back to me. I mentioned that it was difficult to get stats on longer term survivors, and also wanted to know whether the technology had improved over the years, which he confirmed was the case. The stats are impressive, but ultimately it depends on luck. Don't we know it.
I am leaning towards HIFU as it is the least invasive, and the side effects seem much reduced. This is important as I have a small business with my son and do not wish to be off work for long. I am 66 but keep fit and extremely keen to keep it going. Later on, should there be a repeat (or a new cancer) I can still fall back on HIFU if localised, and subsequently, other treatments. Also, I have confidence in the surgeon and this I think was pivotal in my decision to-date.
I understand that each individual case is different, with many varied views on treatments. The nurses from the various sites stress that you should listen to your doctors and would not make any recommendation on the types of treatments available, which of course is understandable.
I am continuing to go through the motions and will still see the NHS urologist tomorrow, and the oncologist on Monday (fortunately I have private health cover through my business and understand that HIFU is available to me). I don't want to have reached a pre-conceived conclusion, and will be asking the specialists why I should adopt their treatments rather than HIFU.
I have gathered a great deal of information on the subject, including very helpful comments on this site and others. The experience of Saturday's conversation and review of the surgeon thereafter has only served to confirm my thoughts that HIFU, if possible, is the way forward for me. I'm keen to get something done now, asap, but I suppose that's natural.
Then again, by this time next week I may have changed my mind, albeit I don't think so.
I wish everyone all the best, and thank you again for taking the time to respond, it's greatly appreciated and valuable to me.
I will update you as I progress.
Kind regards
Kenny
Edited by moderator 27 Oct 2020 at 19:28
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