Thanks for your kind comments
Let me explain and add more about my case please.
I have inconsiderate neighbours nextdoors and below my apartment flat. I could hear noises where I shouldn't hear ,my nextdoor neighbour he plays music 7 days a week from 8 am until 8pm sometimes later than that.
I Walker into a police station 4 years ago I asked them to help me stop me being a criminal person.
I waited for my nextdoor man to come put days after day but he did not so I could talk to him civil ways or none civil ways.
He just says he has rights to play music's even on Christmas days,new years eve new years days
I'm a social house tenant I'm unemployed I have got physical disabilities had surgery operation for my leg .
Have contacted with Housing associations but received no help.i even attended their open days to raise my issues guess what they offered me a flat but where? Steveange!! Miles away from London
All my life I lived in London dont know anyone from stevenage why should I relocate there?
Anyway Before I attended to that meeting at housing associations I had maybe 10 times meetings regarding the noises with Housing area manager.I invited him to my place he came around and he heard still nothing had been done.
I contacted with a local MP still nothing done.
A friend of mine who works for CAB citizen advise bureau he wrote them letters,Emails but no actions taken.
I'm not a psychopath with anger butcher people for nothing, so I taken calming tablets such as Amitriptyline and aroprazol with their help I sleep longer and keeps me calm...so why I'm telling you about all these.
You mentioned that why I did not do my research?
Well my mind was everywhere I cannot think healthy ways.even now days I got to watch my phones calendar to know what days I'm having .
Those medicines made me not to think healthy way. And stupidly I took the decision and go ahead with that Surgery operation.
Ohhh by the way the nurse at the hospital whom told me that I have a cancer she also said IM your nurse from now on if you wish to contact with me here is my numbers blah blah blah blah yes I contacted with her but couldn't reach her at all left messages many times than had recieved nothing heard nothing.
My ex girlfriend to be B.....h is a civil servant so she destroyed my life .she was even on nextdoors side as well she was kinda defending them
Also she was keep saying ohhh you got to go ahead with surgery for me.for us blah blah.
Anyway ...she is history now
Hope you can understand my feelings mate.
But when this (NHS) people arranges pre operation MEETINGs
I want to go and infrom about the untold stories to those people whom will be attending the meetings.
I dont want them to be disappointed like me.