Continence update... 3 months post-op and I no longer need to wear a pad in the daytime. Totally dry. I'll probably still pop one in if I go to the pub or have a few glasses with dinner (pride before a fall etc) but overall I'm pretty happy with that.
Surgeon's opinion of my lump was "fatty necrosis" and to be fair it has now completely resolved.
Only one thing remains and that's the total ED. Currently not even 100 mg sildenafil will shift it so I continue with the pump 3 times a week. Not too discouraged though as I figured this would be the last function to return to anything like normal. At least the blue pill side effects haven't been too bad.
Post-op PSA <0.01 ng/mL next one due next week. Will need to watch this like a hawk as my stage turned out to be T3aN0M0 although Gleason went from 4+3 to 3+4. Not sure how reliable the Gleason is as I had been on 150 mg bicalutamide for 4 months or so.