Thank you all for your speedy replies.
I am new to the site as you probably guessed so apologies if ramble on a bit!
I'm on Tamulosin (since Feb 2020) when my PSA was 5.1, it has gradually risen to the latest 13.6.
I only get up once in the night but it can take 6-8 minutes to complete the task!
I take the Tamulosin in the morning as l use the toilet more in the day, probably because that's when I drink more.
The specialist nurse has advised I go on decaff coffee which I will try to do.
I haven't had the follow up with the consultant yet, but I am obviously concerned.
Also to add to it two of my brothers have had prostate cancer, my younger brother about nine years ago but complains he is in constant pain,
sadly my eldest brother also had it but another cancer got him .
At this moment I only have the enlarged but huge prostate.
Thank you all for your replies.
All advice/ideas/comments are very useful when the time comes to decide