I am 57 and now 2 weeks post RALP surgery
The catheter was not fun but used having it to take as much rest as could. Had a little blood passing the catheter during bowel movements. It came out 10 days post surgery.
Been out having reasonable walks on the flat over past couple of days interspersed with rest.
drinking plenty of fluids (water and cranberry juice)
small manageable leaks during day and dry overnight with by getting up several times for a pee.
Have restarted pelvic floor exercises.
good luck with it all. Lots of good advice on these forums.