You have so much to deal with at the moment - that PSA rise must be very worrying but I think you are getting to the stage where PSA is just a number and it is how Tony is feeling that is a better indicator of what's going on.
It is good to have both brothers under the same consultant - at one point, John, his dad, his mum and my dad were all under the same urologist which meant that I only had to deal with one point of contact and the urologist got to know our family very well!
Stay strong Barbara x