Hi Ann,
Sorry to hear of your husbands diagnosis.
I’m sure more experienced people will be able to post with better advice but just to let you know a bit of my husbands story.
His PSA was 8.3 and was diagnosed before op as T3a N1 so it had spread to atleast 1 lymph node. They hadn’t mentioned any spread to seminal vesicles although I know they were taken away during the operation along with 14 lymph nodes.
He has been recovering really well so far but we know he may need more treatment (radiotherapy) in the future.
There are so many treatment options so try not to worry too much. It just takes a while to get all the information and to be able to make decisions.