Good morning all,
Not been on for a while, I’m in good shape myself though PSA test time (now annual) looms.
This question is for my father. He was diagnosed with stage 4 PCa with (fairly extensive) bone mets a little over 5 years ago. He’s just coming up to 83.
He’s been on hormone therapy for that time. Not sure exactly what but injections every 3 months. It’s done a pretty decent job. Once a severe prostate infection was sorted right at the beginning (3 months of Cipro finally did it), his quality of life has been pretty good until recently.
He had COVID a couple of months back. He reckons he’s had colds far worse…… however, since then things have been going downhill. He’s been complaining of leg pains for a while in hips, thighs & knees. GP reckons old age/arthritic. He’s also been having urinary symptoms. Getting up multiple times in the night, discomfort, urgency, control issues and even the occasional “mishap”. GP tested and found evidence of infection. He’s had a couple of short courses of antibiotics, which have helped some, but I’m not convinced it’s fully sorted.
He’s now weak and tired all the time. Mobility is becoming a real problem. Partly weakness, partly loss of control. Most worryingly, his leg pains have suddenly got much worse. He describes as hot, electric, shooting pains in left hip and thigh. Doesn’t sound arthritic to me. More like nerves being squashed.
Last PSA about 3 months back was good (had actually come back down from a previous slightly elevated level) and consultant was “very pleased”.
However, I’m very concerned that his mets are waking up (or have just been quietly working on in the background) and there’s a spinal compression developing.
GP (never see same one twice) isn’t picking up on this (not reading notes, patient communication likely misleading), frailty clinic so slow as to be useless.
I’m inclined to get his oncologist involved ASAP, but this means facing up to the elephant in the room….. yes, there is some denial going on I think….. I’m aware that 5+ years is a pretty good run for the HT.
Am I right to want to push the oncologist card do you think?
thanks
Nick