As has been suggested, like most, I receive everything but don't post so often these days. Posting under groups is pretty rare and what I have seen posted on this very broad minded forum could come from any person, white or of colour. any sexuality, directly affected by PCa or on behalf of a relative or friend. It is a place where all are treated the same. Indeed, if anybody stated they only wished to receive replies from somebody within the same group we would comply. However, in doing this the individual would be losing help from most of the regular posters. Although in general many feel it is best to post where all can see and sometimes put a different opinion, rather than widely use personal messages, it does seem to me that this method might work rather better for members of specialist groups to communicate in a more secluded way between themselves on certain aspects they don't wish members outside their groups sharing.