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Posted 11 Aug 2022 at 14:55

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time

Sending hugs

Debby

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Posted 11 Aug 2022 at 15:18

So sorry to read this Barbara, it was a kindness he passed peacefully. Sending you love and strength.

User

Posted 11 Aug 2022 at 16:22

So sorry to hear of your husband passing away, deepest condolences to you and your family

ann

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Posted 11 Aug 2022 at 18:35

Sorry to hear that Barbara. Once they stopped the dialysis things were going to change quickly. x

Dave

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Posted 11 Aug 2022 at 22:56

Although it came very quickly I am so pleased that Tony was able to leave gently, comforted by the touch of hands he knew well and reassured by voices he loved.

Barbara, you have been a lioness throughout Tony's illness, particularly since the treatments started to fail, and have shown great courage and dignity. All I can wish for you is a little more of that strength to get you through the coming days, weeks and months.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User

Posted 11 Aug 2022 at 23:19

So sorry to hear this really sad news Barbara. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this really difficult time. May Tony now be at peace ❤️ Sending love xx

User

Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 06:41

So sorry to hear this sad news Barbara,

Regards Barry

User

Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 07:45

So sorry Barbara, thankyou for taking the time to let us all know on this forum.

User

Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 11:53

Hi Barbara,

You supported Tony with great courage and cared for him to the end, you are a very strong lady.Hoping the pain will ease with with the passing of time.

Love John & Pat.

User

Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 15:08

So saddened to read this Barbara. Love and strength to you and all your family at this difficult time.

June and Tony

User

Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 16:08

Sorry to learn about Tony's passing Barbara. Sincere condolences to the family.

User

Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 17:02

So sorry to read this Barbara. Sending condolences to you and yours.

Ido4

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Posted 12 Aug 2022 at 17:17

Much love to you and the wider family

User

Posted 14 Aug 2022 at 15:23

Thank you everyone for your kind wishes, at the moment i just feel relief as the last week was awful, there where good times as well he hugged and kissed his children with so much strength when they where with him and they will all take that memory with them. His last night i actually climbed in the bed with him so i could hold him I am so glad i had that last night with him. At the very end he died peacefully . I know that the funeral will hit me really bad but at the moment i have sent all the children home so i can have a bit of normality, once again thank you all.

love Barbara xx

User

Posted 17 Aug 2022 at 08:30

Once again thank you everyone for your kind words , His funeral is on the 31st august at 3pm and if anyone wants to raise a glass to him his favorite was a pint of Batemans XXX.

Barbara xxx

User

Posted 21 Aug 2022 at 18:49

So sorry to hear Barbara, he fought the battle with all he had. RIP Tony

Good luck to everyone coping with the insidious big C

User

Posted 30 Aug 2022 at 08:13

Tomorow is the big day, don't know how i will get through it but somehow i will, just feel like i am living in a different world at the moment. xxx

User

Posted 30 Aug 2022 at 08:21

Hope all goes as well as they can. Don't bottle up your grief and don't feel you have to be strong for other people. Love and hugs.

Thanks Chris

User

Posted 30 Aug 2022 at 12:34

Well all be with you, even though you won’t see us. Sending hugs and strength.

Merilyn

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Posted 30 Aug 2022 at 23:31

We’ll be thinking of you tomorrow Barbara. Sending you love and strength.

Ange xx

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