NFFC, I could understand if she said, sent home " with " a catheter the next morning. Did you query what she said ? Our preop.nurses are not urology nurses.
The believe the joint should be watertight straight away, as in nothing should leak into the abdominal cavity. I had an issue with my op and the surgeon told me he reviewed the dvd of my op and the joint was watertight.
The catheter should be your new best friend for a few days post op.
As already said it may be a new trial or method.I am sure you will update after the op.
For me, having constipation was worse than having a catheter.
Hope all goes well don't forget the biscuits, even if you are only in for one night.
Thanks Chris