I agree with Lyn - if the MDT (which is the collective view of the hospital oncologists, radiographers, urologists, etc) recommended radiotherapy, why is a surgeon disagreeing with them? If sexual function is important to you, you need to ask about the prospect of nerve sparing. Even with full nerve sparing, this might not recover. Also ask him what effect the aggressive surgery would likely have on continence. I'm not trying to put you off prostatectomy, but I would want to understand why the surgeon is perhaps not towing the line from the MDT. You could also try asking what he thinks your chances are of needing radiotherapy after the prostatectomy. This is required in 30% of all prostatectomies anyway, but your risk may be higher.
My diagnosis wasn't that different to yours (although you haven't said what your PSA was at diagnosis). I went for a radiotherapy protocol called HDR Boost, which is good for high risk patients with no known spread to lymph nodes, but being high risk, there's a chance of micro-mets (mets still too small to show on scans). This consists of external beam radiotherapy to prostate, prostate bed, seminal vesicles and optionally pelvic lymph nodes done too (I had them included). This is done at a lower than full dose which tends to produce fewer side effects, but the prostate where the known cancer is is topped up using HDR Brachytherapy to a higher dose than can be achieved with external beam radiotherapy alone. This is thought to be a good compromise on hitting the cancer hard, cleaning up where it might have spread unseen, and relatively low side effects considering how hard the cancer is being hit.
If I'd had a prostatectomy, it was unlikely I'd have any nerve sparing, and quite likely (well above 30%) that I'd need radiotherapy. So the urologists, who would have done a prostatectomy if I really wanted it, said why not go for radiotherapy in the first place and avoid having both sets of side effects. Radiotherapy can also impact sexual function, but the chances are less, particularly if prostatectomy wouldn't be full nerve sparing.
A negative point for radiotherapy is your age, and to a slightly lesser extent, that was the case for me too, at 2-3 years older than you at diagnosis and treatment. I may live long enough (with luck) for a risk of cancer in the bowel or bladder to double (typically 20 years later), but we're still talking about a small risk. Some 3 years after my radiotherapy, I'm still pleased with my choice, and everything still works, but there are of course no guarantees - it's mostly just risk levels and luck.
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