I had a TURP , I am no expert but after that I started to pee blood which sent me into retention (couldn't pee at all ) very painful, had a catheter fitted that was so uncomfortable I could not sit, was left with this for 7 months. Have now had it removed, thank god.
I am now fighting with incontinence, trying to get my control back, when I go to work I just don't drink incase I have an accident.
It's left me with NO confidence at all and struggling with depression.