Hi Chris - one of my concerns with the RT/HT route is the suggestion that if it doesn't work, that you cannot later have the RP surgery, whereas I'm told that the other way round is possible. It feels like a two bites at the cherry option. The other worries are the bowel incontinence and other urinary problems. Did you suffer much with these? I think I'd suffer from not wanting to leave the house if I thought I might suddenly need to go to the loo. My wife has a similar issue (for different reasons) and I've seen how badly that has impacted her life. I appreciate that both treatments cause ED problems, but the RP surgery has the issue of shortening/almost losing your penis. Did you have anything like that from R/T.
At the end of the day, the most important factor is the success rate of both options and my consultant said that both treatments should provide a recovery for me with "one treatment". If R/T can really do that then it feels like the "less invasive" route to achieve the successful outcome. But I'd like to see the actual stats.
The more I read, the more confused I get, and as per Old Barry, I don't think 8 days is enough time to make such an important decision. I shall make the point to the consultant on Tuesday. I shall also insist on talking to the Oncology radiotherapy consultant.
Do you have a view on the rectal spacer option? Did you have one? It reads as though it can help to reduce side effects, although a procedure is required for it to be inserted. That sounds as though it would be worth the effort.
If you don't mind, any other issues, pointers, tips, concerns that you might share would be very helpful.
Thanks.