Just an update. Whilst I continue to take the tablets, mess around with the ED pumps, as I already mentioned, I bought a hollow strap-on to at least pleasure my wife. We have used it several times in the past 4weeks. My wife did however comment whilst she thoroughly enjoyed it, she felt the size did not match my penis size, so off I went shopping to look for something that would closely match my penis. I ordered the the "size matters clearly ample" (after doing a lot of research) and this is now a winner! I now combine the strap on with penis extender (fitted on the strap on) like a condom.