Hi Greg, great news on your PSA result….long may that continue. Have you been prescribed any tadalafil or sidenafil yet? There are also injections you can have in the future if your ED doesn’t get any better, and of course you have the pump coming soon. I would say to try not to put too much pressure on yourself though as that can sometimes cause ED or certainly make it worse.
My husband is now 10 months post RARP. The only thing he has used occasionally is the pump, he hasn’t had any medication as I was worried about some heart palps he was having. He had 50% nerve sparing so we kind of accepted he might not ever get an erection again. Have been pleasantly surprised recently though that even without much rehabilitation he has had some meaningful erections. (He is much older than you aswell) He has used the durex ring as recommended by a few on here too, which helps to keep the erection for longer. Of course it’s far from perfect or normal but going in the right direction.
I’m similar to your wife, no pressure at all. I’m so grateful he’s here and feeling well.
Still really early days for you, things will improve I’m sure. Best of luck