Dear Francij1
I am sorry to invade Nigel's pitch, but your tone is somewhat combative. This is supposed to be a forum. That is a place where ideas and experiences are exchanged and to promote discussion. It is not a boxing ring.
It pains me to make this point, but it isn't that. It seems to be dominated by a few individuals with dogmatic and definitive views, that are often incorrect. To answer your point on keto diets, it depends on the keto diet.
There are a few people on here like Dave and Barry who have provided longstanding advice derived from experience. Their contributions appear to be ceaseless, well intentioned and invaluable. There are others, whatever their motivation who provide comments from bicycle pumps to penis pumps, from strawberry jam to medication without either being qualified or having the relevant experience to do so. What is disconcerting is that they offer receive adulation from individuals who are in the depths of despair. Alas, their contributions are often gleaned from the internet, their assertions often fallacious. In reality, sometimes the best outcomes will be achieved if the forum accepts that being polite is not always the best approach. Moreover being silent is the worst outcome. Logic would tell me that the lack of active participation from newcomers is because the culture of the forum does not encourage this.
Another aspect is tone: "in my humble opinion" or " from my experience" seem to be very much lacking. I have not written this without considerable thought but I have studied and analysed the archived discussions on this forum and also the current ones. There is a vast difference in: tone, content and indeed culture, something on the forum has changed.
I think the moderators need a kick up the arse. We need more participation, more humility and less self righteousness and showboating.
Yes, I have already put on the blindfold and smoked my last cigarette, but someone needs to put forward a contrarian view.
This is not a forum, it is a classroom and one where all of the teachers are not qualified. The notion of the omnipotent leader went out the door twenty years ago. It should be about facilitation.
In my 35 years as an academic and professor, it was rarely those who spoke the loudest who wrote the best dissertations. Having said that, it is about diversity and to me that is really lacking on this forum.
Gabriel
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