FRIDAY 10th March 2023... just over 9 years ago (in 2014) I posted for the first time.
The latest... my husband went for a TURP procedure on 15.9.22 as he was finding it increasingly difficult to pass urine. We were not aware that they would be taking a biopsy and have since found out that it is routine to do so. We were therefore totally unprepared to receive a phone call at home just over 2 weeks later from the urology department (while our 3 children were in the adjacent room) to be told that Steve's cancer was back, very aggressive and rare... total shock and devastation all over again. The reason I have not posted for so long is because since 2015 Steve's cancer was managed with hormone treatment for 3 years and his PSA level has always been below 1 and so we had no cause to be unduly concerned. It is currently 0.64 and so we just can't understand how it can be back so aggressively.
Since then we have had an almost 6 month agonising wait for CT, bone and PET scans to be done before finally being seen this week on Monday 6th March.
CT and bone scan results showed no evidence of metastases
PSMA PET scan showed uptake in the prostate with lymph node metastases.
He was immediately put back on hormone therapy and had his first LHRH hormone injection on 20.1.23. We are now wondering why he has not had hormone treatment for 6 years and they have just relied on his low PSA score.
He is due to start taking Apalutamide in 3 weeks time but it has some concerning side affects... how have others taking this medication been affected by it?
In our meeting on Monday, we asked for some kind of prognosis which they seemed reluctant to give but the things that stood out most were the concern as to why his PSA score of 0.64 could be so low with a Gleason score of 10 and the mention of 'quality of life' consideration. Basically, we feel in the dark, very anxious, have no understanding of how serious this could be and how much time we might have. They did however say that we should never have received that news over the phone at home and they would making a complaint to the urology department on our behalf.
Does anyone else have any experience of a similar situation that they could shed some light on for us? Thank you for reading and thank you for all the support that this online community provides.