I second that. I follow the same rule. I give the facts about me and the experiences I have had and that's about it. The only helpful advice I modestly give is about incontinence and ED issues which I experienced following my prostatectomy, even then I describe how I handled my incontinence (and deal with urine leakage even now after 12 years) and how we managed to re-establish our sex life. From the response I have had I think other men and couples find my/our experience useful to read even if it just giving them the confidence in handling this catastrophe in their lives in their own way. This is a great forum.