There are no silly questions - if you're wondering about something, it's a valid question.
T3 doesn't automatically mean no nerve sparing - it will depend where the cancer is close to the surface or breaches the surface of the prostate. However, the most common place for prostate cancer is where the erection nerves are, but often only on one side. So you would need to ask the surgeon how likely they think nerve sparing is in your particular case. Of course, there are no guarantees of nerve sparing, or that erections will work even with full nerve sparing.
Some people successfully use the pump for sex, but I think it has to be said, most people don't find it very satisfactory for that. It is most useful for penile rehabilitation (preventing damage caused by not having erections for an extended period) and limiting or reversing loss of size, so still well worth having.
There are two drugs currently used for injections, and one of them can cause pain in some people. The other drug doesn't as far as I know, but there's only one product available using that. That matters because all the injections and other products for non working nerves seem to take it in turns to go unavailable. Also, NHS is likely to limit you to 1 per week. Another option if erections are lost is a penile implant, which replaces the erectile tissue in the penis with either a permanent erection which can be bent out of the way when not required, or an inflatable implant which enables an erection to be pumped up when required. You need to be in good health to have these fitted, and not a smoker.
I don't know about the 50/100% question. Since the erection nerves are not really visible and don't always follow the same path, the idea that the surgeon accurately knows how much were saved is a bit questionable. There are cases where the surgeon says there was no nerve sparing but erectile function recovers, but probably more cases where there is full nerve sparing, but it doesn't recover.
Given sexual function is important to you, have you considered radiotherapy? That is less likely to damage erectile function, but there are no guarantees with any of the treatment options. If radiotherapy does damage erectile function, it usually starts slowly within 2 years of treatment and gets progressively worse. You are a bit young for radiotherapy, but I did it at age 57 partly for this reason (I would have been non nerve sparing). 3½ years after treatment, urinary function and erections work exactly like they did before treatment. I do have some minor rectal bleeding, but it's painless and has no impact on quality of life.
Don't hold back with any more questions - that's the main purpose of the forum.