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My PC Experience

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Posted 22 Oct 2025 at 12:58

Great to hear you are doing okay MAGOR. Being able to get back to what you doing before PCa is a real well being booster. I am about the the same as you on incontinence but it could be so much worse. That and the Lymphoedema compression stocking are a bit of an inconvenience but they don't stop me going hiking and the doing other activities that I've always done. However on the sex life front my climaturia and an erection that doesn't always cut the mustard means it ain't what it used to be. But I focus on the positives like undetectable PSA. Hope yours continue the same way.

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Posted 22 Oct 2025 at 13:13

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
 ‘you can’t shag when you’re dead’

But at least  you get stiff. 🙂

Normally only a long spell of bowling ! 

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Posted 09 Apr 2026 at 16:35

Here I am nearly 3 years post op and went to get my latest bloods done this morning. 6 hours later and the results are posted <0.001 Happy days. I’m not complacent about the results as I know it could make a reappearance but at least for now it’s good news. I now face my biggest challenge having retired early age 60 at end of March. I am following a tax avoidance strategy - spend my pension so the Chancellor can’t get her grubby mits on it!!! Lots of travel planned. We’re off to India next week and luckily for us we are in a city when there’s an IPL game on so we’ve got tickets. Looking forward to it as it’s has been something I’ve wanted to do. My decision to retire early was swayed by getting diagnosed and treated. Made me realise you can’t take your health for granted. 

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Posted 09 Apr 2026 at 22:44

Thanks for the update, mate. Another fantastic result. Long may they continue

I adore the IPL. Fantastic game today between KKR and LSG. 

I hope the game you've booked to watch is as exciting. Have a great trip! 👍

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Posted 12 Oct 2026 at 22:09

Time flies when you are having fun. It’s been 6 months since  I retired and my last test. My latest test result came back at <0.001. What was impressive is that I was only tested this morning and results back by lunchtime. Onwards and upwards for another 6 months of tax avoidance (reducing my kids inheritance by travelling!) before my next tests. I’ve decided that retirement is hard - it’s 24/7 365 with no bank holidays!!. Travel plans all mapped out till June 27 so now need to get my thinking cap on for the rest of 27.  

For cricket lovers if you ever get the chance go to an IPL game in India - it’s bonkers and such fun. It’s certainly not Lords!!! I ended up getting interviewed for Indian TV before the game - let’s just say I was clearly ‘not from round ere’! So stuck out like a sore thumb.

One thing I’ve learnt is that you cannot be complacent with PC and you never know what’s round the corner health wise. Health is your wealth so I’m taking advantage of my health by travelling. I could have stayed working for a few more years but did not want to regret such a decision by having a later retirement curtailed due to health issues.

Yes I have side effects. I still use 1 pad a day. Some days I’m practically dry but other days I leak for no apparent reason. I can sometimes feel a dribble but more often than not I’m surprised why the pad is damp. One of life’s mysteries. I suffer from ED being only 50% nerve sparing. There’s an occasional twinge but nothing to show for it as a cruel reminder of what once was! Silendafil helps on occasions if the mood is right and the pump helps on occasion if need be. I do seem to lose sensitivity when using it though and my wife views it as a passion killer whilst I’m getting primed. But there’s worse things in life and there are guys in a lot worse situation than me. I consider my self lucky. The cancer was identified early and fingers crossed has been treated but I’m not complacent. 

 

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Posted 13 Oct 2026 at 05:25

Hello again, mate.

Thank you for the update. It's fantastic news that three and a half years after RARP your PSA is still undetectable.

Our treatment and outcomes have been very similar. I had surgery Feb 2023, and my PSA, has also been below detectable levels. I have an occassional dribble and I'm still as dead as a Dodo down below unless I use Invicorp. Like you, me and the missus have adapted and life is pretty damn good.

I remember that initially you were a little apprehensive about retiring. It's lovely to see that you made the right decision and are enjoying travelling. I adore the IPL. I have watched every televised game for the past few years. 

I also never get complacent about my PCa recovery. I've got my 45 month PSA test next month, and still feel a bit anxious. Fingers crossed all will be okay.

I know during your recovery that you've helped others on here and at your local support group in dealing with the disease. I suspect that we also often share having a thought for those who haven't been so fortunate as us. I've only been on this forum for three years and have already lost too many friends.

I hope you continue to enjoy life to the full and all the best for the future. 👍

Edited by member 13 Oct 2026 at 06:37  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 13 Oct 2026 at 20:16

Adrian thanks. I do intend to keep enjoying retirement and travelling so long as my health and or wealth hold out. I went to an aunties funeral today (94 so a good innings) and how can I put it delicately- she was ‘frugal’ so much so that there will be IHT payable on her estate. She enjoyed holidays but refused for instance to get a taxi and would prefer to not go out rather than spend money on a taxi to get somewhere. That to me is a further lesson to enjoy life as much as possible. 

I’ve not tried Invicorp and not sure the idea of a prick to make a big prick (!) appeals. My wife would probably gladly stab me though with intent and not necessarily in the right place! 

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Posted 14 Oct 2026 at 07:08
Hoping for continued below detection readings for you Adrian!
 
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